Sickness Strikes
Saturday morning, neither Buba nor Tiny was up when the moon changed into a sun (at 6:35am) on their Good Nite Lite. This is very, very unusual. Buba’s normal wake up time is between 6 and 6:30am. I think Tiny would sleep later, but once Buba is up she tends to wake up shortly after. T and I didn’t think much of the few extra minutes of sleep. Perhaps it was the beginning of a transition to sleeping later in the morning. One can only hope so, right?
By midmorning, I was beginning to see the sleeping in as a symptom that something unpleasant was headed our way. Buba was pretty lethargic as we attempted to run a few errands after breakfast, and even began to cry and request going home while we picked up new books at the library (something he loves to do!). Not good. He barely ate any lunch and fell right asleep when I put him down for a nap, without his usual routine of bouncing and singing in his crib. He cried a bit in the middle of his nap, but managed to fall back to sleep and got in the full two hours. But he was a complete grump when he woke up. Also not good. By that time, he felt warm to me, so I took his temperature- 102.6! I gave him a does of generic Tylenol and within an hour he seemed like his normal, happy self. I decided to give him another dose before bedtime, to make sure he’d be comfortable for sleeping, and hoped we were dealing with some sort of 24 hour bug.
Saturday morning, Buba was screaming for me at 5:45am. Very unusual. I went right in and he was hot. I gave him another dose of the medicine and asked him if he still wanted to rest since the sun was not glowing yet. He agreed to rest quietly (and did!), and I went back to bed. But Saturday wasn’t a great day either. Buba was cranky and still not eating much. At bedtime, I took his temperature again (he was due for another does of medicine), and it was a whopping 103.1! Not good at all. After taking the medicine, he slept from about 7:30 until 11:00 when he woke up crying for me. He still felt warm and it had been four hours, so I gave him another dose of the sweet smelling, purple stuff and hoped he’d make it until the morning.
Buba woke up at 5:20 this morning, and I went in immediately. He didn’t feel as warm, so I asked him to just rest until he saw the sunshine. I wanted to take his temperature before giving him any generic Tylenol, but knew that Tiny would stir if I took him out of his crib. He rested quietly (maybe even went back to sleep) and was up calling for me the second the Good Nite Lite changed. Finally some typical behavior was back. And he seemed to be in good spirits. I hoped that we were through with whatever bug he had caught. I checked his temp and it was down to 100.1. Not great, but better.
I asked Buba what he would like for breakfast and he requested raisins and a strawberry breakfast bar. He was standing at his high chair saying, “Eat! Eat!” so I put him right in and threw some raisin on the tray. Buba stuffed several into his mouth and then started to cry. One by one, he pulled them out and threw them on the floor. Not good. Tiny joined him, and I handed them both a plate containing a cereal bar, some yogurt, and some cut up frozen strawberries. Buba ate most of the cereal bar, a few bites of yogurt and all of his strawberries. Things were looking good. Until I went to brush his teeth.
I know Buba is getting at least one of his second molars, so I brushed very, very lightly, but he screamed and started swatting at the toothbrush. Never before has this happened. I removed the toothbrush, and found it lightly covered with blood. I didn’t waste anytime getting myself and the kids ready and out the door to our pediatrician’s office. Fortunately it was still early enough for us to be seen as a walk-in. We waited forever, but once he was seen, it didn’t talk long for the nurse practitioner to conclude that Buba has Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease (so far, with no rash). Very common for a kid his age, very painful, and no real treatment.
So now we just do what we can to help make him more comfortable. I’m alternating generic Tylenol and generic Motrin, but he’s still noticeably miserable at times and not sleeping well (which means I’m not sleeping well). He hates the Motrin and vomited the first dose I gave him, which is not good since that’s the one that will help with the pain. Thus far, Tiny is showing no symptoms, but it could be just a matter of time. And wouldn’t you know it- this is the one week of the summer that T is teaching an enrichment class for his school district.
I know we’ll get through this. We’re certainly not the first family to be hit with this nasty virus. Still if you’ve been through this already, any tips you have to offer or words of encouragement would be appreciated.
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I realize I’ve been quite wordy lately. Thanks for reading all the way to the end.
HF&M is AWFUL! You poor things. The only blessing is that, from what I understand, you don’t typically get it twice. We found popsicles to be really helpful in the thick of it. He probably has sores down his throat which is why he is having a hard time eating. Water is important – or really any kind of liquid. My boys both had it at the same time and one of them was miserable but the other one was really pretty much okay. I only knew he had it when I saw the blisters on his feet. I will tell you, once the feet blisters showed up, it was only another 24 or so hours. Good luck!
Oh poor Buba! And poor Mama! I hope he’s starting to feel better. Hang in there.
Ugh! No fun. We just got through it at our house a couple of weeks ago. Quite frankly, it SUCKED. But I will say that based on what others have told me and our own experience, every kid seems to get a different variation of it. Mia was MISERABLE. Lila definitely had it too, but it seemed like the “light” version of what Mia had. Either that or she has a higher tolerance for pain! I found no sores on either of them aside from a few red bumps in the diaper area (yes, they can get it there), but they didn’t seem to bother them at all. They certainly had them in their mouth though because they wouldn’t eat. I could never see them though.
The daughter of our daycare provider had it as well, but her symptoms were just a fever for two days and she didn’t want to eat. She was fine after a couple of days and ended up with a rash on her upper arms for about a week.
Some kids can have it and show absolutely no symptoms whatsoever. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you that this is what is going on with Tiny! I will say that this is the only thing they’ve ever gotten at what seemed like the exact same time. They rebounded really fast once they got through it!
Good luck!
Oh, hon, I’m sorry. Hand, foot and mouth SUCKED, although we were lucky to get away with some minor symptoms.
My recommendation: mix Maalox and Benadryl together, 50/50, and dot on the mouth sores right before offering food or water. It numbs them enough to help eating.
Here’s a link to our experience in case you can glean anything helpful from it: http://rodrigueztwins.blogspot.com/2009/07/sick-and-tired.html.
HUGE HUGE hugs, all around.
Hey Bean, I’m sorry to hear about Bubba! I hope he’s feeling better. HF&M went around Will’s day care just a few weeks ago – we were somehow fortunate to get away with just a few blisters on his feet – no fever or mouth sores unlike most of his classmates. I don’t have any good tips but the above popsicle idea sounds fantastic to me!
I haven’t, but I’m so sorry.
I hope he feels better soon! And yes, popsicles!!
We just went through a similar thing with Michael, only thankfully it was not HF&M. He woke and had his milk as usual only I noticed that he had a little out of his nose. Then the next thing I knew he was getting sick. He pretty much slept and got sick for 2 days with a fever up to 101. I was so afraid of HF&M since people were posting bout it on the twin’s group. Thankfully just a stomach bug, but it is just horrible when your kids are sick. I hope Bubba feels better soon! We should definitely get together once the summer is over!
oh my!! I’m just catching up on my blog reading after being on vacation….is everything better by now? I certainly hope so!!!
[...] Tiny and Buba had only had a handful of mild colds, one stomach bug, and one nasty case of Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease. But suddenly, it’s getting hard for me to remember the last time our kids weren’t [...]
Bless Buba’s heart, and yours, too! I’m so sorry to hear he’s not feeling well. Here’s hoping he feels better soon…and that Tiny manages to avoid the virus.