healthier me reanbean Tiny & Buba: Early Intervention night waking playgroup potty training
by reanbean
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I’m finally feeling back to my old self again. Finally. I’ve taken all the meds (7 days of eye drops, 10 days of antibiotics, and couch medicine and inhaler as needed), and the sore throat and cough are finally gone. Without the cough, I should be sleeping soundly through the night again, but alas, the night wakings continue (more on that later). I haven’t been to the gym in two weeks (since the sickness kicked in), but I’m planning to make my grand re-entrance tonight. I’d been back to going 4-5 nights a week since the end of March, and as of May 21st, I was up to 226.9 miles on my 500 miles in 2010 goal. I suppose I’ll need to ease back into my workouts, but hopefully in a week or so, I’ll be back on track again.
Today was week 5 of drop-off playgroup for Buba and Tiny. We didn’t have playgroup last Monday due to the holiday, but I did leave the kids at childcare when I went to book club on Friday. They both did fine there for almost 90 minutes, so I decided it was time to try leaving for a bit during playgroup today. We arrived about 5 minutes late, and both kids walked right in and started in with activities. I talked briefly with the teachers about my plans to leave and what to do to help soothe Buba should he be upset about my absence. My understanding is that he was fine until he got spooked by some loud noises in the music area, and that’s when Buba lost it. But still, I got to spend almost 30 minutes down in the waiting room by myself before needing to return to take my place at the mommy bench. And that seems like huge progress to me. Plus, Buba was totally fine with going to circle time and snack time this week. Yes, I still had to accompany him, but he didn’t cry as he had during previous weeks.
Buba is still wearing undies during the day. He is now telling me when he has to go, or will just go to the potty in our house and go all by himself. He has very few pee accidents and no poop accidents. However, he still will only poop in a diaper at nap and/or nighttime. I’ve tried enticing him with a reward and putting him on the potty right before nap and nighttime, but still no successes in that department. Maybe by the end of summer, I hope…
Tiny continues to wake at night on a fairly regular basis (maybe 4-5 nights a week). At first I thought is was bad dreams, then I thought it was out of need to use the potty. I am no longer convinced that it is either of these things. T and I have been taking turns going in to soothe them (because inevitably, Buba always wakes up too), and it usually just takes a minute or two, but the fragmented sleep definitely isn’t good for any of us. I’ve begun reading the months 22-36 section in the Weissbluth sleep book, and we may try to implement some of the strategies in there. This week I’ll just be collecting data so I know for sure exactly how often the night wakings are occurring.
I’m way, way behind on my blog reading again (especially on those with daily or multiple posts each week), but I hope to catch up soon. Many thanks to Mandy from My Life as Described by Twin Trials and Triumphs for passing on the Trendy Blog Award. We’ve recently bonded through our only-child-all-grown-up-and-now-raising-twins connection and have enjoyed swapping book and CD titles. If you haven’t already checked out her site, you definitely should!
I’m glad you’re better. Sick is no fun! Good progress on the playgroup front, too.
Glad to hear that you are on the mend. That sounds great about playgroup!
I LOVE Weissbluth!! His book is my baby bible! If anything is going crazy or difficult I almost always can blame it either on sleep or teething. His methods have my kiddos sleeping like a charm. They go down around 6:00/6:30 and sleep anywhere from 8-9 in the morning and sometimes even as late as 10! It is great! Hope it helps you out too!
Huzzah for improved health! I’ll be curious to hear what solves the sleep issue…
I’m so glad you’re finally feeling better! And it’s so good to hear that Buba made it through play group for a little while on his own. I can’t remember if I mentioned that we’re going to have a lady coming to the house to spend an afternoon with the girls, once a week, starting next month. The intent is for them to get some exposure to someone else, and to give ME some time to get out and about, but I foresee a pretty gradual transition to get to that point.
And thanks for including a link to my blog…you didn’t have to do that, but I appreciate it.
Sorry to hear about the night waking. It is definitely hard to recover from a cold if you aren’t getting uninterrupted sleep.
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I’m glad to hear you’re feeling better. Getting back into the workout routine can be such a bear… good luck!